1. He tells you to not tell anyone that you two are seeing each other

2. He introduces you as a ‘friend’ to his boys.

3. Tells you your in the only one that he’s seeing.

4. Takes you out on occasional dates then is ‘busy’ for a period of time before he see’s you again.

5. Texts you constantly.

6. Calls you at random times to ensure that you are thinking about him.

7. Does the occasional ‘makes you pay for dinner/things for him’ so he can get something out of excluding the fact that’s sleeping with you.

8. Ensure’s that your mutual friends all has good things to say about him to keep you interested.

9. Strings you along to keep you.

10. Makes you fall in love with him.