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What NOT to do on your first date:

Wed, 12 Dec 2012 00:24:25 -0500

1. Mentioning your ex boyfriend/girlfriend.
2. Talking too much about yourself.
3. Mentioning your future life goals, babies and life lessons.
4. Asking 21 questions that seem overbearing or will make your date uncomfortable.
5. Saying “I Love You”.
6. Insult he/she.
7. Get drunk.
8. Flirt with the waiter/waitress

MEN

Sat, 16 Jun 2012 19:55:27 -0400

YOU KNOW YOU NEED TO STAY AWAY WHEN:

1. He’s abusive. Reality is, if he’s not making the necessary decisions to change then he never will.

2. Disrespects you not only privately but in public. If he loved you, he will never humiliate you.

3. Doesn’t put you first. If he loved you, he’ll show it.

4. Doesn’t communicate. If he doesn’t, then realize it. Your being played.

5. If your guts telling you theres something fishy going on about the guy your seeing then 99.9% time you are right.

6. Busy bodies. Stay away because chances are, your a booty call

7. Only hollas at you when he’s free.

8. Can sweet talk you to the point that it overshadows his mistakes.

9. Doesn’t have a job.

NIGHTCLUB CREEP

Sat, 16 Jun 2012 11:51:38 -0400

YOU KNOW YOUVE MET A CREEP WHEN:

1. Approachs you and starts complimenting you when in reality theyre trying to figure out what it will take to get you into bed.

2. Starts texting and calling you then slowly increasing it. Dont be fooled, theyre just trying to make you fall in love with them.

3. Constantly pursues you because he’s figured out what itll take to get you into bed with me.

4. Is a grenade.

5. Constantly wants to know if your going out just so that he’ll be able to meet up with you and get you into bed with him.

6. Plays you but then slowly eases his way back into your life.

When you know your a BOOTYCALL

Sat, 16 Jun 2012 11:38:12 -0400

1. He texts you at random times/days.

2. When you text him / Call he doesn’t reply or call back when unanswered.

3. Only wants to ‘hang out’ when its suitable for him not you.

4. Makes excuses when you invite him as your date to events/family outings etc.

5. Takes you out then you don’t hear from him until days later.

6. Makes you fall in love with him then treats you like dirt when hes done with you.

7. Is always busy.

You need to LEAVE him/her when:

Mon, 16 Apr 2012 08:07:00 -0400

1. Doesn’t make time for you

2. Always busy with you need him/her

3. Never there for you

4. Wants you around when its suitable for him/her.

5. Puts you second

6. Expects you to be there for them ALWAYS

7. Treats you like an object

8. Makes excuses

9. Expects you to stick around despite everything.

10. Says “Im Sorry” to try and erase his/her multiple mistakes

11. Gets angry when you react when he/she hurts you.

12. Has the sweetest things to say when he/she stuffs up

13. Is reassuring

14. Puts his/her friends needs before yours

15. Wont sacrifice anything just to keep you

16. Plays mind games

You know your getting "PLAYED" on when:

Wed, 11 Apr 2012 06:31:00 -0400

1. He tells you to not tell anyone that you two are seeing each other

2. He introduces you as a ‘friend’ to his boys.

3. Tells you your in the only one that he’s seeing.

4. Takes you out on occasional dates then is ‘busy’ for a period of time before he see’s you again.

5. Texts you constantly.

6. Calls you at random times to ensure that you are thinking about him.

7. Does the occasional ‘makes you pay for dinner/things for him’ so he can get something out of excluding the fact that’s sleeping with you.

8. Ensure’s that your mutual friends all has good things to say about him to keep you interested.

9. Strings you along to keep you.

10. Makes you fall in love with him.

Reasons why you CANNOT be friends with your EX!

Tue, 10 Apr 2012 07:29:00 -0400

1. Once you over step that boundary of commitment, Love and Trust you can never go back

2. Your ex will take advantage of not only your vulnerability but your history with him.

3. As much as you want to be friends, he will always have other agendas.

4. Youll unofficially become his bootycall whether you like it or not.

5. Despite the fact that you think your over him, he will give you reasons why it ain’t.

6. When you feel like your in control of the situation, think again. He will string you along and then drop you in a dime.

"Never assume that someone loves you by their sweetness. Sometimes, you’re just an option when..."

Mon, 09 Apr 2012 06:57:00 -0400

“Never assume that someone loves you by their sweetness. Sometimes, you’re just an option when they’re bored.”

What a Man Wants

Mon, 09 Apr 2012 02:18:00 -0400

1. Don’t expect too much from him.

2. Always be honest.

3. Never doubt or second guess what he says because once you start, the lying will start.

4. Just as you want to be wine and dined so does your man. Surprise him.

5. Shower him with gifts. Just as you expect it, so does he.

6. Give him a space. That means time to hang with his boys.

7. Ask him questions. The more you know the better.

8. Just as you expect to be treated like a queen, treat him like a king.

9. When your angry. Don’t leave him guessing. Communicate. He won’t know what upset you if you keep it to yourself.

10. Make time for him. Learn to appreciate him without judging him or focusing on his flaws.

11. Love him.

12. Don’t give up on him. Let him know that your there for him ALWAYS.

13. What you give is what your going to get so make sure you give him everything because he loves you regardless of what you think your imperfections are.

14. Encourage him. Without that, he will never really know what he’s capable of.

Playing Hard2Get

Sun, 08 Apr 2012 20:03:00 -0400

1. When he texts you, give it time before you text him back.

2. Don’t pound him with calls/texts everyday. Give him time to miss & think about you.

3. Don’t text him. Wait for him to text you first.

4. When he asks you out, casually say yes. You don’t want to sound desperate.

5. Be flirtatious. Nothing like letting a man know your into him.

6. When he plan’s on taking you out on a date, say your busy on that day & watch him reschedule it for another. You need to show that besides him, your life doesn’t evolve around him.

7. First Date: No kiss on the first date. It’ll make him want you more and give him a indication that your not easy.

8. 60 day No Sex Rule! If he really wants you he’ll wait. This will separate the real men from the players.

9. When he tries to get to know you. Say few words. If he wants you he’ll do anything to get you.

What a Women Wants

Wed, 04 Apr 2012 05:06:00 -0400

1. Always be honest. Just as you think some things aren’t a big deal. Think again, it is.

2. Shower her with gifts. Let her know your thinking about her.

3. Be patient. I know we can be moody at times, angry at the smallest things or annoyed. She just needs to know that your there ALWAYS.

4. Compliment her. When she starts pointing out her imperfections, reassurance is needed.

5. Surprise her. A women loves nothing more then being reminded that she’s the only one for him.

6. Listen. Not only are you her partner/husband/BF but you are her Bestfriend. She will confide in you for everything.

7. Reassure her. Despite everything we women do, she needs reassurance to know that your going to be there for her.

8. Communicate. When you have an issue or angry about something talk to her.

9. Leave a note or a rose to remind her your thinking of her. Small things matter the most so be creative.

10. Help her. Whether she’s cleaning the house or making the kids dinner, doing small things to help out means alot. So show her that you appreciate her.

11. Appreciate her. When it’s all said and done always remind yourself why you fell inlove with her.

12. Never point out a women’s imperfection. You are the one man that she’s given to her heart to. Guard it.

13. Give her space. That means time with the girls.

14. Never question her. Once you start, be prepared for what’s to come.

15. Never start an argument with her if your not prepared to lose. Everything you thought she didn’t see or do, she will bring up. Dont do it.